Yes, they are necessary. If you have much to hide it would be wise to choose your partner tactically. I have heard it is possible to control the connection to a degree, but I do not know how true that is.
My Tether Partner is always tinkering with technology. When he is being challenged mechanically I sometimes feel his frustration, and see his calculations in my mind, even if I do not understand them.
He has woken me in the middle of the night with how hard he is thinking, and I cannot sleep until he sleeps. It is extremely irritating.
That said, I trust him with my life and my secrets. Perhaps you simply need to find someone who will not think less of you for yours.
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My Tether Partner is always tinkering with technology. When he is being challenged mechanically I sometimes feel his frustration, and see his calculations in my mind, even if I do not understand them.
He has woken me in the middle of the night with how hard he is thinking, and I cannot sleep until he sleeps. It is extremely irritating.
That said, I trust him with my life and my secrets. Perhaps you simply need to find someone who will not think less of you for yours.