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[ No way would Felix ask this with his name attached, but once he notices the anonymous function for the network, he figures it is worth the risk. ]
Question for those of you who are already Tethered, or I guess anyone who knows...
I've been told that people who are Tethered to one another have access to each other's emotions. How specific is that access? Is it just the feeling or the cause of the feeling, too?
For instance, is it just "Harold is happy right now" or is it fully "Harold is happy right now because he noticed that I mended that rip in his jacket, and because I smiled at him when we said goodnight last night, and also because he's secretly in love with me."?
All Harolds in this example are purely hypothetical of course.
Question for those of you who are already Tethered, or I guess anyone who knows...
I've been told that people who are Tethered to one another have access to each other's emotions. How specific is that access? Is it just the feeling or the cause of the feeling, too?
For instance, is it just "Harold is happy right now" or is it fully "Harold is happy right now because he noticed that I mended that rip in his jacket, and because I smiled at him when we said goodnight last night, and also because he's secretly in love with me."?
All Harolds in this example are purely hypothetical of course.
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I understand that Tethering is necessary, I just want to know in advance if I'm completely saying goodbye to the privacy of my own thoughts.
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How well does Harold get along with his tether? Hypothetically speaking of course.
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[ Damn, this guy saw through him pretty easily. Felix is annoyed at himself for being obvious, and also fairly desperate for advice. ]
Hypothetically speaking, Harold gets along very well with the person he might possibly tether with, but they haven't known each other very long.
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Is the person you Tethered with not around anymore?
[ He doesn't want to ask 'did they die' but Felix's brain being what it is, that's his first assumption. ]
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I would not Tether with someone I intended to keep deep secrets from, if that is your concern.
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[ The Doctor will always take compliments to stroke that ego of his but in this case he only has a very small hunch that the person is actually talking about their own situation. ]
Ah. So it boils down to a comfort thing, then?
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But apparently it's possible to share dreams, so Harold might want to come clean before he's caught out that way.
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[ Felix is terrible at talking about himself, but it helps a little that this is anonymous and by text. It makes it easier to open up, even if it's only within a nonspecific hypothetical. ]
Maybe it a comfort thing. But also partly not. Let's say hypothetically Harold knows what he would bringing to the table would mostly be not-so-great emotions. Doesn't it seem kind of unfair to the other guy, if he suddenly gets saddled with Harold's internal bullshit that he could previously just keep to himself?
[ And even worse, if
Jessethat person knew the thinking and reasoning behind the self-loathing and dark moods? ]no subject
[ Perhaps this would be a possibility, then - not to Tether to Jesse, who he knows and who would probably have more access to his emotions and thoughts because of it. Felix has an instinctive distrust of people he doesn't know, but perhaps... ]
Is it prying too much if I ask what kind of a shared stressful situation it was?
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But Tethers are necessary, aren't they? So I guess it's just a matter of choosing the least bad option, when it comes to spilling deep secrets.
[ That's extremely frustrating to learn. But also, Felix knows, not this guy's fault. ]
Can I ask for an example of what you mean by the kinds of thoughts you are getting from your Tether, along with an emotion? I don't mean anything super personal, I'm just wondering what depth of complexity is at play.
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[ Aaaaaand maybe he was not as subtle as he thought with his example. He should've come up with something else that wasn't secret affection. Too late now. ]
Good point. But coming clean isn't Harold's strong suit.
[ Then, because they are both anonymous and why the hell not, he asks: ]
So you're not Tethered yet? Is it because of the privacy thing, or something else?
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Do you happen to know if mental walls like that would limit the effectiveness of a Tether? Everyone keeps talking about how essential they are, and I don't want to undo all that.
Also, do you know if there's maybe anyone here who could teach a guy how to build one? Someone from you world, with experience in mind melds?
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My Tether Partner is always tinkering with technology. When he is being challenged mechanically I sometimes feel his frustration, and see his calculations in my mind, even if I do not understand them.
He has woken me in the middle of the night with how hard he is thinking, and I cannot sleep until he sleeps. It is extremely irritating.
That said, I trust him with my life and my secrets. Perhaps you simply need to find someone who will not think less of you for yours.
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I've found meditation helps.
( she's not going to out spock to this guy as someone who can do them. as for how useful her information is after this point... eh. has she had a mind meld or just read about them? she's more going off her own illyrian mental conditioning and her reading )
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Sounds like Harold or the other person should just get better at their mental walls then. It's possible even for normal pudding brains if they just apply themselves a little bit.
[ The Doctor is definitely up there with being awful at talking about himself so he can sympathize in some respects. But his first instinct to the texter's predicament is simply to meet it with some tough love that may or may not be an actual solution for their problem. ]
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But most of it's the fact that it's a big choice to make, with potential serious repercussions when we find a way to get out of here, when we don't have solid proof that it's actually necessary for us.
[And ok, the headaches and fatigue of the last week or so have been a little bit concerning, but she's also been running herself a little bit ragged, so it's not necessarily proof.]
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